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July 20, 2007
Some couples always go somewhere together on a weekend, be it a small house on the country side or a picnic outside. Other couples see nothing extra ordinary about weekend and prefer to spent it at home, relaxing from the hard week days. While of course we can’t blame the lazy ones who sees Sunday as the only opportunity to sleep out, let’s not forget that one of the main romance killers is a routine. Routine kills the thrill, destroys the excitement and prevents new wave of feelings and emotions from flowing into our relationship and refreshing us delightfully.
Of course traveling somewhere just to drink coffee outside the city could be bothersome and of course if both partners are against, better to pass on it and avoid a fight, however, if you are not a heavy domestic couple, why not? It’s not about drinking the same coffee only on a different table, it’s about the emotions it will awaken in you two. The beautiful view, the smell of flowers, the fluffy clouds, the singing birds, the change of regular domestic atmosphere (admit it, it’s not the most exciting background) - this is what will fill you (and your partner) with different feelings, positive and optimistic ones. Don’t let your house turn into a marshland where nothing happens and where your partner will feel like a prisoner of his own fading love towards you. Bringing fresh events and new experiences is absolutely necessary if you don’t want to start seeing your partner heading off to his friends on evenings more and more often.
This is why weekend is the ideal timing - you have the whole day to dedicate to each other, no need to go to sleep early, no need to look at the clock or worry about anything, except each other.
July 24th, 2007 at 5:05 am
Aw, I agree with you. I think it would be really good for couples to spend some of their weekends doing things that they don’t always get to do. It’ll definitely add some spark to the relationship.
July 24th, 2007 at 8:13 am
Hi again! Firstly I want to let you know that I really like your site and the way you write. Secondly, I read this article and you got me thinking about weekends and how I’m spending this free time and I wrote an article about it. My opinion is a little bit different from your’s…(http://mariaflorea.blogspot.com/2007/07/perfect-weekend-destination.html)
Best regards!
July 24th, 2007 at 8:27 pm
Marrisa, Thank you so much for your kind words, I really didn’t expect this blog to become so popular, I find many people linking to my posts here and it really flatters me and of course encourages to keep sharing my thoughts. I read your article - it’s fantastic! Thanks for stopping by
Daisy, glad that on the weekends thing, unlike the diamond rigs, you do agree with me!
July 25th, 2007 at 1:33 pm
regular weekends as a couple are important, to get away from daily life and spend one on one time is key