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August 6, 2007
When it comes to online dating, it’s important to remember a several quite basic rules. I tried to summarize and organize them into very basic list of 5.
- 1. Do not join an online dating or matchmaking site expecting miracles. It’s just Internet, and the mere fact that these people seeking a match online indicate they, for whatever reason, unable to find it “offline”.
- 2. Do join an online dating site with both eyes wide open. Cautious would be your best guiding light, married men pretend to be single seeking adventures, old people pretend to be young, young pretend to be old, jobless pretend to be lawyers and so on…
- 3. Be absolutely sincere when you put your profile online and upload your photo. You want people to accept and love you, or a mere false image you have created?
- 4. Don’t limit yourself. Be open to meeting people who are very different from you. Most important to remember is that online, people might make a wrong, misleading impression, even unintentionally. Concluding anything before you have met the person is… irrational. “Confident” people online could be terribly shy in person.
- 5. LOVE yourself! If you love yourself, other people will love you as well, even more. Everything begins with self-love, as self-haters rarely ever find happiness in life.