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Although I only accept Nightwish when Tarja Turunen is the lead singer, this song is really amazing and heartfelt. Marco Hietala’s Viking-like voice in this song is truly touching and before I had read the movie’s synopsis and seen the video, I was sure it’s about Romeo and Juliette.

• While Your Lips Are Still Red lyrics

Sweet little words made for silence
Not talk
Young heart for love
Not heartache
Dark hair for catching the wind
Not to veil the sight of a cold world

Kiss while your lips are still red
While he’s still silent
Rest while bosom is still untouched, unveiled
Hold another hand while the hand’s still without a tool
Drown into eyes while they’re still blind
Love while the night still hides the withering dawn

First day of love never comes back
A passionate hour’s never a wasted one
The violin, the poet’s hand,
Every thawing heart plays your theme with care

Kiss while your lips are still red
While he’s still silent
Rest while bosom is still untouched, unveiled
Hold another hand while the hand’s still without a tool
Drown into eyes while they’re still blind
Love while the night still hides the withering dawn

“While Your Lips Are Still Red” music from Markku Pölönen Film “Lieksa!” by Tuomas Holopainen / Marco Hietala. Music and Lyrics by Tuomas Holopainen, Nightwish’s creator and songwriter.

Harry and his wife are having hard financial times, so they decide she’ll become a hooker.

She’s not quite sure what to do, so Harry says, “Stand in front of that bar and pick up a guy and tell him it’ll be a hundred bucks. If you’ve got a question, I’ll be parked around the corner.” Read the rest of this entry »

I don’t know what category would this video fit in, thankfully we have the “uncategorized” category! I just really enjoyed the lyrics, though you have to actually listen otherwise you miss the words on screen. Very lovely, and oh so true! James at War did a fantastic job

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1. Give people more than they expect from you and do it gladly, let them know and feel you are happy to give.
2. Marry a person you enjoy talking with. With age, this will be their utmost valued quality in your eyes.
3. When saying “I am sorry” — look people in the eyes.
4. Believe in love at first sight, then the romantic fire in your heart will never be put out.
5. Do not laugh over other’s dreams. Dreams are a very valued possession one can have.
6. When you love, love deeply and passionately. Of course you might get hurt but it’s the only way to live life completely.
7. When you argue and fight with friends or spouse, fight fairly without name calling.
8. Don’t judge people by their relatives.
9. Talk slowly, but think quickly. Train yourself to think quicker than you speak and NOT the other way around.
10. When someone asks you a question you don’t wish to answer, just smile and reply with a question: “Why do you want to know?”
11. Remember, great love and great success often involve great risk. Be ready to take it.
12. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson you gained.
13. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller will hear it in your voice.
14. Spend time alone at least every day in peace.

This is a very nice reciept I dug on the net, and even though I know a variation of this dish already (I cook it slightly different) I decided to share it here. It’s a cheese (but not cheesy!) appetizer but can as well be served as a side dish.

Ingredients:

• 1 lb Package frozen puff pastry
• -sheets; thawed
• 17 1/4 oz Wheel brie; chilled
• 2 1/2 c Tomato chutney; see recipe
• -follows
• 1 lg Egg; lightly beaten

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While the best would be “DON’T fight in the first place”, we still can’t ignore the fact that any couple occasionally has fights. Some fight more often, some rarely, some fight over small things while others only raise a riot when it’s really a matter of life and death. It all depends on how sensitive and hot-blooded both parts in the relationship are.

Let’s assume that, for whatever reasons, you do fight with the person you love. Although it’s hard, try to stay reasonable. Try not to say things with intention to hurt, or rather with ONLY intention to hurt. Even if the fight seem to be heading far and will probably have some long term consequences, the chances that you will split after this fight are slim, therefore whatever you say, will be used against you for the rest of your life, especially if you are a man and arguing with your beloved spouse.

First of all, don’t fight, argue. If the argument has some reasonably recognizable basis (even so called “blind jealousy” has a bit of a basis) — either agree and admit your mistakes, or bring on some proves and contra-arguments that will put an end to the unreasonable accusations.

Remember that most arguments are probably pointless, i.e. after one month they are forgotten and the issues they brought up are buried. They really don’t worth energy wasting on, yet we still do. Try to make them as short as possible (if they already pop up against your will, initiated by your partner) and try to following a reasonable guidelines:

• Think first and don’t lose common sense: is there anything (and I mean a-n-y-t-h-i-n-g) that could be achieved from the argument at least at this point of the fight? If the answer is “NO” (and it’s likely to be), just stop talking, no matter how angry you are and cut the fight.
• Don’t repeat yourself over and over. Making your point once is much more powerful than repeating it over and over again, hysterically shouting, yelling, begging, screaming, crying. Once you repeat it many times it may as well lose point, rather than gain it.
• Don’t respond to words that were meant to make you angry. Ignore them as hard as it may seem. Sometimes you know your partner say things just to provoke and make you angry, hoping you will respond. Don’t give your partner the pleasure, ignore it and you will save yourself nerves and enjoy seeing him or her practically burning from anger, only because you did not react. Most common way to bait you would be saying something like: “You are just like your father!” (especially if there are enough negative references) or… “You always do the same thing!” — recognize such statements and leave them out.
• Don’t expect your partner to admit mistakes. In a middle or in the end of the fight, never mind how endlessly you were right, don’t push your partner to admit he or she was wrong and worst of all, admit that your suggest to put this fight to an end was brilliant. You both know it, no need to have it said out loud.

Basically, the best way to win in a fight is to avoid it. Even if things already started to heat up, you can change theme, switch your partner’s attention to something else (if you manage to switch somehow to intimacy — it’s best, because you both can convert your boiling energy into something useful and no less exhausting).

One of the famous psychologists say that “In the best relationships, there remain serious pockets of unresolved bitterness” — it’s a fact that arguments never fully get settled and it’s normal. The trick is o know how to handle them with minimum damage for yourself and your partner / relationship.

If you have a blog, you know how hard it is to get traffic into it. Gain readers, win attention, build a community around your blog. It’s really not an easy work which is why we sometimes look for a shorter way and turn to traffic networks. Have a Blog? Join in and Get Massive Traffic — this is the motto I read on BlogRush.com today. This is for English blogs only, however, anyone can join and start driving traffic to their blog. Very easy to get started, just watch their video on the front page and it will answer all the questions you have.

So many men do this mistake — with time, they become slaves of their own habits and routine. The scheme of “dinner, TV, sex” kills the romance, the passion and eventually the love. Not only because women (just like men) are unable to get excited when they know exactly what steps will you take, when will you do it and where will they lead, but also because of the scheme of “dinner, TV, sex” leads to little communication on a spiritual level.

Don’t let your relationship just circle in cycles by itself, in inertia, until it stop. Invest your emotionality in it.

For instance, read together. Just cuddle up in bed and read her in a low voice, and of course I don’t mean Marquise De Sade’s book or Playboy’s tips for better life. It can be anything, and it does not have to lead to sex directly. If you don’t bore her to the point that she falls asleep, it may eventually get there, but you will create a cosy warm atmosphere together that will lead to a lot of relaxed emotionality. Read to her in a low voice, low voice is a sign of high testosterone, which will up her attraction to you.

What is it good for?

It’s not the act of reading itself that will make an impact or arouse her, it’s the fact that she will focus on you and enjoy your company, that is going to play a role. Instead of focusing on TV or daily routine which might not make her happy at all, she will concentrate on your warm company, which will additionally to all, make her feel “important”, you read to her, means you care, interested in her company and ready to spend your time on HER.

This tip might not help to achieve immediate results but will most definitely help your emotional proximity in a relationship in the long run, and help to get maximum out of your intimate life. Just remember, that “dinner, TV, sex” rule won’t lead anywhere and only put your relationship or marriage in a marshland.

Some people are fascinated by tattoos… It’s like a fetish which cannot be uprooted from one’s soul and while some people find it disguising and are trying to avoid tattooed folks, others are seeking places where they can find tattoo personals, both online and offline. If you read this, most likely you are interested in finding a tattooed partner online, which is why the tattoo dating website would be an ideal place for you to start at. This online dating community has a wide variety of personals to choose from, quite a few interesting profiles and the registration is free. It’s not only for people with tattoos, but also for those who seek and are interested in friendship with guys and girls who are into body art. Take a look, it’s really interesting.