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September 5, 2007
Let’s face the sad fact and admit that life isn’t fair at all when it comes to opposite sexes. While men at their 30’s are still blooming and are open for offers, women around their 30’s and after this age quickly get downgraded in men’s eyes.
Let’s say you have devoted all of your 20’s to getting your career off the ground. Not that you haven’t been dating at all… of course you have, and had a great time, but not with serious intentions, since developing your life was more important and in some cases even essential. Now here you are, turning 30 and no long-term relationship on the horizon, but you can practically hear your biological clock ticking… It could make you nervous, but in essence, you have only a few priceless years to find a man to fall in love with, make him fall in love with you, get him to marry you, and have a baby or its lights out. Why only a few years? Because if you are single at your 38, you’re practically dead for most men at their 38. Sweet, is it not? But, that is life to you. Some guys would assume that if you are STILL single, something must be wrong with you, while others, when they are approaching their 40’s and are still unmarried, switch orientation to younger women, after all, they are only 38, would be a shame to waste the best years of their life on some 37-years-old granny, right? Either way, being single after 30’s — sucks.
When girl at this age realizes all of the above it either pushes her into a depression, or she goes wild hunting men and as a result scares them even more away. Presuming you’re already familiar with all of the men in your social circle, and none of them shows great interest, or not a good enough candidate, or just scares you off, what can you do?
Best is, to consider online dating.
You have the opportunity to read hundreds of profiles and look at hundreds of pictures in search of that “someone” that will be right for you. You aren’t limited to only those men that you come in contact with personally. The possibilities are almost endless, and while being cautious (it’s important!) as to who you are going to meet, you can find someone with similar tastes, hobbies and goals in life. Don’t forget that you need not be limited to Internet, there are many other alternatives such as mobile dating where you can meet new people and get in touch with someone new even when you sit bored in a metro on your way to work.
“Isn’t online dating consists of perverts, sexual predators and weirdos in assorted shapes and sizes?”
Well… while I’d not say anything about assorted shapes and sizes, not everyone who seeks a life partner online is a pervert. Not anymore anyway. That was true when online dating first came on the scene but now it is mainstream, and many business people who simply have no time to go to bars and hunt girls, avail of the facility to find a soul mate online. Use caution that you would use when meeting any stranger, as meeting someone on the street does not guarantee he won’t turn out to be married, pervert or god-knows what.
Never give your real name, address or phone number or other details until you feel safe doing so. Don’t rush into a face-to-face meeting until you are confident and then make the first meeting in a public place and during daylight hours. Still and all, give it a try… Man of your dreams could be just a few mouse-clicks away.
September 6th, 2007 at 12:13 am
Don’t forget…online dating isn’t just for older women.
I met the girl of my dreams online last year and we’re getting married this may.
I’m only 26 and she’s 24…so meeting someone online is an option for the younger ones too!