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It’s been a few days that this orange ball appears above Galilee sea, it couldn’t be a star because it’s orange and bigger / brighter than the rest of the stars, its almost light a street lamp but high in the sky.

Unlike helicopters and plans that pass here in dozens every day, (and i really had seen them all so it’s not like I’d mix), it doesn’t fly in any direction, it just hangs in the sky at one location, sometimes moves and sometimes just does nothing.

I am not the only one who had seen it, quite a few people seen them in the area where i live. Yesterday i finally managed to borrow a good pair of binoculars, but couldn’t tell the neighbor what for, otherwise he would have gave me and would stay to watch it himself

So, last night i could finally see it properly with a good zoom and it turned to be a triangle, not a ball. Moreover, it consists from many small orange lights, only at distance it merged into one spotlight. This triangle twists around itself and sometimes just hangs at some angle. It appears in the sky for a few days now after 3 am, and never been here before, i wonder for how long do we have guests here..

Anyway, i am sure its UFO, nothing in the local military can perform such a rotation in the sky, so its MY UFO!

All women and young pair know that having a baby can be expensive, which is why I decided to tell you about Maternity Care. If you are already pregnant and need Prenatal Care, maternity health insurance can often be difficult if not impossible to obtain or simply unaffordable.  In most countries such insurances cost a great deal of money and if we assume that  most pregnant girls are either young in a newly started family, or single, coving these expenses is only possible if you come from a very rich family. MaternityCard can help you make the best decision about how to handle the costs of having a baby and practically helps you through the process so you can focus on your child instead of the financial difficulties it may drag.

When expecting a baby it’s important to have a comprehensive maternity service package for every possible case. At Maternity Card, experts can help you chose the right plan of card, which will fit perfectly with your specific needs. This is especially recommended to get for anyone who knows expenses might be an issue when having a baby, so you can set your mind at ease and just concentrate all the efforts around the kid.

Unfortunately, I did not find it on eBay or some online store, so I don’t know where it’s possible to purchase or even find such a towel, however, I must say this is the most increadible present you can give to a guy, at least if I knew where to get it, I’d sure buy a few. Maybe some of you will find it rude and inappropriate, but after all it sure will attract a positive Karma to the man who wears it after a shower and it will make him feel good every time he gazes at himself in the mirror.

There are a few possibilities. First of all, you cannot “date” someone online without being romantic, so most of these peeps you consider to be dry and hopeless are in fact very fragile and touchy. But then again, WHY do they choose online dating over the regular way to meet friends in bars, pubs and swimming pools..? A several reasons I can think of:

1. Will to be appreciated for the inner qualities, rather than outward appearance (especially if self-esteem is low).
2. Bigger pool of potential partners (especially if you live in a small closed society).
3. Escape from reality (especially if the reality you live on is nothing like you want it to be).

What other reasons could there be? I believe there are many more, but I can only think of these and when you come to date someone online, you have to remember that there is a reason why your online partner chose online dating, and the question is, can you unconditionally accept this reason..?

These are my favorite series of the British Bunny Boiler, just see how this beautiful girl is going on a mission and trying to seduce a handsome guy, but… Problem is, he is already taken. Is girlfriend an obstacle? Let’s see…

Happiness is not something that lays on a golden tray, somewhere beyond the horizon, away from out reach. Many researches today, prove that each of us is happy only until the limit he or she sets to themselves. It means, we decide how happy we are, and how happy we want to be. It’s all in our hands and in our full control, so let’s see how we can raise the bar and decide to be happier with our lives.

1. Be grateful for what you have. This is at times hard, but if you chance your view point on things you have and possess, you will see that your life is much better than you thought it is. You hate your small house? You are not homeless, and there are sure hundreds if not millions of people living in much worse conditions. Don’t like your job? At least you have one and it pays. Hate your reflection in the mirror? There are so many bigger problems in this world, surely many would be glad to have yours. If you got what you have now in life, and for sure I know you have access to Internet, which again many would die to have, your life is not that bad!
2. Count the positive things. Every day and week is dynamic, sometimes bad things happen, sometimes good… Sometimes these are problems, other times just great news, but many people tend to concentrate on the negative side of events. Naturally, most of the times the negative events are more memorable due to their consequences and damage they cause, but this is exactly why you have to force yourself and concentrate, count and look forward to the positive events that happen in your life and surely some do.
3. Say a little pray. Regardless your religion, turning to God cannot have negative effect. When you pray you fill yourself with hopes not to mention that you relax and find peace. Religious people would confirm the actual help praying can bring, so weather you choose to meditate for your peace of mind, or pray to your God and ask for certain help, you will get closer to happier life.
4. Keep a diary of good stuff. It may sound silly, but it works for millions of people. All you need to do is buy a small notebook, and every day when something positive happened, write it down, just as a title. For example “today I got bonus at work”… “I finally found the book I was looking for in stores”… “A friend I didn’t see for long time — called”, etc. Eventually, when your little book will gain some weight and you feel down and miserable, open it and read your “good events diary”. I promise you, your mood will improve and you will start thinking positively.
5. Spoil your senses. Or in other words, just spoil yourself. Take care of your body and health, take at least one day a week and dedicate it to yourself, buy yourself something you wanted for long time, take a relaxing bath, whatever makes YOU happy. Don’t think about pleasing others, just be selfish (unless it comes at someone’s happiness cost) and do what you enjoy. When your senses will be happy, you will be too.

Finally, don’t worry, be happy

I was surprised by how different people’s reactions are to seeing beautiful photos of happy couples. Some get depressed from seeing other’s happiness, which I find totally unnatural, while others just get inspiration to call someone they love or throw all their powers into finding someone new. How come something as beautiful as LOVE can cause such contrary reactions and simulate such opposite emotions? I guess those who are negative by nature will only be brought down by anything, regardless it being good or bad, while more cheerful characters will be happy and inspired even by other’s happiness and love. Still and all, I found it weird.

Dating online could be fun and entertaining, it could be a great way to choose from a huge pool of potential admirers and pass the time nicely, however, you should not forget that not every Mr. Nice Guy is indeed nice. Have you heard the dreadful story of a 13-years-old girl got attacked and raped by a person she met online? Or just go over this list of cases where people spoke on the phone or met online, planned a meeting and got raped, attacked, or even killed. Read this list through and the whole Internet dating idea will totally lose it’s charm.

Are everybody rapists?

NO, but there is definitely a good share of people who pretend to be something they are not, because: online you reveal only as much as you choose to reveal. You talked to the person and he has a soft mellow voice? Doesn’t mean he has bad intentions! You had seen him on cam and he looks sweet? Well, don’t forget that looks often mislead and if he is attentive and appears to be caring online, this could be a mere mask to trick you into meeting. Younger girls are more often the victims due to lack of experience and judgmental sense, as well as the tendency to fall in love, so typical at the adolescent age, they believe easier.

I remember seen a story on TV about a 40-years old woman with high education, who was talking to another highly educated guy of her age, for over 2,5 years. I doubt at that age she could have blindly fell in love and the mere fact that she waited almost 3 years for meeting indicats that she was not in a rush to meet and wanted to get to know the person better at distance. As you can guess, bottom line is that he attacked her and she survived by pure miracle, though her face will never be as before.

What I am trying to say is, if you chat with someone from you cosy room and if feels so great and safe, don’t lose your senses. The world out there is cruel, many people take drugs and lose control, many get addicted to their online buddies, and other factors that can endanger your life, and you only have one.

Basic tips for Safety Online:

1. Guard your identity. Your first name is enough, don’t disclose any other details.
2. Be careful with choosing a suggestive / sexy name. Some guys can take it wrong of their imagination will run wild.
3. Don’t meet your online friends alone, do it only in a public place and inform your friends or relatives about the meeting beforehand.
4. Don’t leave your drink (especially sparkling) unattended. Sounds silly? Do you know how many times this was used to slip an LSD table in one’s drink?
5. Be wary of someone who is very vague, talks in circles or answers questions with other questions. If you sense your online buddy puts extra effort into protecting his privacy — at best, he could be married.
6. Be cautious with people who complain too much about their money problems, how lonely they are and how life betrayed them. Maybe it’s true, but it’s also a great way to simulate your sympathy and love.
7. Finally — use common sense and don’t let love rob you blind. Do a little digging, you might find the same person in another online dating site with a different picture or details…

Every time when we go aboard — it’s a big problem, where to eat? How to find the right places? It’s always best to take care of it in advance, and search online for trusted places you can visit. There is a whole site designed for this purpose, where you can find the best London restaurants, as well as places to eat, drink and hang out, share your recommendations of places you have visited or post a review of your favorite places in London or anywhere in the world. This means, the site is based on real opinions of people who visited these places, and not adverts. Highly recommended to visit before  you pack your bags!

Following the popularity of the Dating a Geek, does it have an upside? post, I decided to expand the discussion and make a post on why should you not date a cool guy. You know, that one in leather jeans, on a motorbike, that all the girls in the neighborhood are crazy about. So let’s see what disadvantages they have and why should you choose a geeky boy over an Alpha Male.

1. Little variety. If you decide to go for a popular guy, unless he has some hidden complexes, he would probably be taken. Good products get sold out fast, and the supply is small. Filter all the gays, junkies, alcoholics and you are left with a very few worthy candidates, only just imagine the competition…
2. High maintenance. Maintenance of a cool boy in your house is a pain. While a geek would be grateful for pizza (no need to unfreeze) or some cookies (could be dogs’ cookie too), a “cool boy”, who sure had dozens of girls cooking for him before you, trying to impress, won’t be easy to please.
3. Pimping yourself for them is annoying. Again, remember the competition-factor and relatively low cool guys’ IQ. They want you because of your long legs and good shape, they are rarely after a big mama without make up, because they still need to brag with their baby-girl near their friends. Geeks won’t mind you without makeup or in walking around in a 20-years-old shirt, because… they won’t look at you anyway, they look at their monitors!
4. Poor Lovers. Of course it’s NOT always true, but… A cool guy would have a huge ego (thanks to his previous 100 girlfriends who were faking) and sometimes, as a result of this overweight ego — poor performance. After all, he is HE, that should be enough for satisfaction already, right? They wouldn’t spend time reading about sexology (no time or need for that), while geeks would study through and through all the possible and impossible online resources about “hot to satisfy a girl”, learn it all by heart and would try 10 times harder, knowing how easily can they be replaced.
5. Little usefulness at home. What can a “cool guy” do at home? Put an apron on his leather clothes and cook? Such guys also rarely have a decent high paying job or any cute little hobbies, so basically in his free time he will drink beer watching TV. That is, when he is not out with his buddies catching girls… Great, huh?
6. Dozens of jerk friends. Cool guys have cool buddies. These cool buddies can annoy the hell out of you when they drop for a visit in the evening, leave mess, make noise, tell stupid shovenist jokes and above all, bring their sexy girlfriends over and make your boyfriend droll over them. Geeks won’t have friends that make noise, let alone those who would bring over hot girls with them.
7. Parents won’t approve. If the guy is really, but I mean REALLY “cool”, the chances your parents are going to love him are slim. Due the obvious reasons — they are probably polygamists, they are careless, they don’t have a decent job or income, they drink, smoke, ride a motorbike and so on. They (the machos) won’t even try to impress your parents, because basically they won’t really give a damn. Even if parents won’t like him, you will still be threatening to jump off the window if they won’t let you see him. Geeks, on the other hand, are often “mommy’s boys”, attentive and, due to their neglected status — will crawl out of their skin to impress and not to disappoint. Exactly what your old folks are after.

Having said that, women are attracted to bad boys by nature and all the reasons listed above, nor any other reason in the world would stop a girl if she is in love…