Love Blog - Men & Women’s Life After Eden

We all think of our previous partners sometimes, it’s natural as being a part of our history. However, think about it… surely there are some partners with who we experienced unearthly experiences, which we cannot forget regardless the years that passed. Surely, some of them, if they were to call tomorrow, we would want to meet again and build up hopes to renew the relationship. There are things in life we could do only with certain partners and will not do with others anymore, and realizing this makes these certain partners from our history — unique.

Can this effect be achieved artificially?

Of course. It’s not even hard. Do you want to live in your partner’s memory forever? Do you want to make him or her crawl back to you regardless how you treat them? Naturally there is no easy to follow manual, otherwise we all would have done it, but like with everything in psychology, there are always “invisible buttons” to press on.

• Unconditional Acceptance.

Let your partner know, plainly in the face, that you accept him or her just as she/he is. Don’t do it subtly, and do not do it during a drive in a car. make sure you are both in a relaxed intimate atmosphere, where you can “explain” your partner why you choose him /her, what attracts you, what you love, and above all, regardless anything on earth — you will stay together. While this technique is simple flawless, and will work smooth on practice, there is one disadvantage. Some people seek comfort, while others are “hunters” by nature. The so called “hunters” are only able to maintain genuine interest as long as the aim is not achieved, and as long as uncertainty fills their heart. Once they get to hear that you are practically in their pocket, interest is lost. Never the less, if the person has a hunting personality, does not mean he os she is craving to be loved and accepted fully, so the trick may still work.

• Do what no one did before you.

This will work on all types of personality, ages, sexes, races and religions. Fulfil your partners wishes, especially sexual ones. Once you manage to bring your partner to the point when they open up to you, you might find some of their fantasies and desires to be shocking… Don’t panic, give it a try unless it really contradicts your idea of hygiene and relationship. If it is not going to cause any negative long-term physical effect, why not? After all, who said that all you are doing in bedroom so far your partners enjoys all that much, but he still probably does it “for you”. The thing is, when you fulfill someone’s deepest sexual desires, you achieve 2 goals at once. First of all, you indirectly let the person know you love him / her just the way they are (which as you see from previous paragraph is essential), and secondly, you from now on, you will always be the preferred partner. Girls, would you choose a guy who is scared of a mere thought about cunnilingus, frowns when you express any extra wishes and turns his back to you once he finished? Or, would you rather spend a night with someone who gets dizzy from the smell of your body, enjoys (or rather says and let you know ; -)) pleasing you and fulfills all your darkest fantasies with great pleasure? Guys, do you like girls who count down the minutes for your intimacy to end and jump away from seeing you reaching climax, or do you prefer girls who want it, and want it with You, and do anything you desire?

Even is sex is not the major part of your life routine, we ALL would always crawl back to partners who give us satisfaction like no one else does.  If your partner has no perverted fantasies (or none he / she would dare to share), just add spice and variation, make sure your partner is more than satisfied every time you are together, both physically and psychologically.

• Add some Romance into picture

We live in a world of career, pressure and tension. We don’t write letters, we email and sms. We don’t make hand-made presents, we buy or order something in shops. We don’t leave much space for romance and creativity, and you really should not undervalue it’s power. Even the most non-romantic bears melt down from some personalized attention. Personalized attention can be expressed in many ways; handwritten letter, describing your emotions and feelings, hand-made gift, picnic you arrange yourself for the 2 of you, and money other things that will steal your time, but allow you to give priceless and timeless present to your partner. No one would dare to throw away a hand-made gift, and love letters are always kept for decades and occasionally re-read by the recipient (unless they get burnt by the new partner).

• Even more Romance, do something together!

Classical tactic would be to kiss in the rain. For unknown reasons it has very strong effect. Maybe it’s the mixture of sensations, it always leaves an unforgettable memory, but please  don’t try to shorten the process in the shower, it won’t be the same! It’s up to you what will you do. You can spend a night by the bonfire at the coast, you can go swimming in a nightly sea, you can do a charity together (yes, if you do something “good” together, you will both remember it!) or you can go learn something together (dancing, yoga, karate, literature sessions… whatever).

Bottom line is, it’s up to you what and how do you do, your aim is to make your partner feel unique and valued, which indirectly make YOU unique and valued in her / his eyes. Always remember that any living creature reacts positively to warmth.  Even if your partner never shows emotions and appears to be ice-cold, don’t be afraid to make the first step and give as much warmth as you can, you probably be the first one, and it won’t pass unnoticed.

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