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February 5, 2008
This is a tricky question because every guy is different. One will not be able to enjoy unless the play gets rougher, while others develop a complex if you slightly bite their buttocks. Moreover, it depends on the mood (yes, guys also have different moods, but they are always “in the mood” for it, only depends HOW they want it). So all you can do is, with a little background knowledge, sometimes adjust to his moods and by this give him the best emotional experience.
The Alpha Male.
For instance, if your partner has just won in a game, signed an important contract at work or did anything else that gave him a feeling of being a “winner”, his testosterone level will go up and he would prefer any kind of “animalistic” sex or a just quickie against a wall. When he is in such a mood, he is unlikely to want to participate in any play where he takes a submissive role.
If the guy is an state of being an “excited winner”, all you need to do is tease him a little bit (with maybe a small strip tease) and make him come and take his prize. He would probably be very active, creative and maybe even nicely-aggressive.
The Sensual Touch.
Women tend to believe that guys only want rough action, while in reality many men do want close and intimate soft sensuality. They want to be touched and caressed not only after or before intimacy, but also during (don’t we all?). While all living creatures always react positively to warmth and love, there are situations when this can be especially appreciated. For example, after a dangerous trip, or after any changes you both or he has undergone or just experimenting something unusual — men would prefer a soft, loving and sensual act that will make him feel your love and closeness. Anything that is face-to-face, gentle and involves maximum physical closeness will be good after any sort of stressful situation.
The post-stress situations make us crave for a warm and healing touch, so if you feel your men is in such state, create an atmosphere where the aim is not reaching the peek and climax, but to get close and enjoy this physical and emotional union.
The knocked-down boy.
The reality is dynamic, and a guy who has just yesterday been successful and was in a mood to be an “alpha male”, may get hit by his work, annoyed by financial situation or just fight with relatives and be brought down. Even if he is not down to the point of completely not being in a mood for sex, he still won’t feel like pushing the limits of sex and creativity in bed.
If your guy is worn out, just take all the activity on yourself and rock his world without demanding innovations or even expecting too much.
In conclusion, sometimes it is not the position or actual sexy trick that makes your intimacy better, but adjusting perfect to your partner’s state of mind and emotional needs.
February 5th, 2008 at 3:53 pm
actuallly i love kinky ones
but not many girls dig it
February 6th, 2008 at 4:16 am
i dont know really much. but from experience it just keeps getting better when you bond, like doing things together.. like playing psp, going out…activities that you do together keep you close and intimate. so when u tumble in bed, its not uncomfortable at all
February 6th, 2008 at 2:44 pm
Nice article. THanks
February 7th, 2008 at 2:08 am
dang article it helps alot specially getting laid every saturday night thanks
February 7th, 2008 at 8:25 pm
guys prefer sex. period.
February 7th, 2008 at 10:24 pm
Very informative article.Thanks for this.
February 8th, 2008 at 12:53 pm
lol love calculator!
ride on my bro , i love kinky one as well!
February 10th, 2008 at 11:59 am
i just like the all natural sex position
not sure the girl’s pref, as she seems without opinion?
February 11th, 2008 at 10:12 am
Oh how I wish the “Guys are always in the mood” stereotype applied to my relationship. However, this post is correct in the respect that guys also have several different moods. Good post.
February 12th, 2008 at 7:03 pm
Amen! About time someone actually started giving both sides of the issue.
thanks for the article.
I think we go to extremes here in North America; we’re either so repressed that if we sat on a piece of coal after breakfast, we’d get a diamond by dinnertime, or we’re so “free” to the point of exhibitionism.
I think most people (men and women) are somewhere in the middle. Sometimes I like it rough, sometimes my partner does.
Whether it’s a lifelong partnership or a casual association; communication is key!
Thanks.
February 12th, 2008 at 7:41 pm
“yes, guys also have different moods, but they are always “in the mood” for it, only depends HOW they want it”
Oh, if only that were true… I’m my house I am the one that is “always in the mood” and HE is the one that is too tired…
February 13th, 2008 at 4:31 pm
Wow, what a great article, makes me want to grab my wife right now…
February 14th, 2008 at 9:51 am
i prefer them to wear er, something special like uniform?
turns me on
February 15th, 2008 at 6:24 am
I don’t normally read these stuff. But I somehow ended up at this post, and enjoyed the read. I guess I agree with all of it.
February 15th, 2008 at 8:06 pm
period. think so too
February 19th, 2008 at 5:42 pm
Thanks for post, it’s really interesting for me!!!
February 21st, 2008 at 1:33 pm
my fav is just the natural position
and BJ if you know what i mean, loads of it! :p
February 22nd, 2008 at 11:48 am
yeah, very interesting post!
i definitely like the woman on top!
saves me the strength
June 7th, 2008 at 5:12 pm
love u all for this post. thanks for allowing comments here - good luck buddy