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May 12, 2008
Are you aware of the ways of attracting women? May be you already have some great ideas to pull women towards you, still some more of those are always welcome! For most boys, it is habitual to say that being cocky and funny does not only mean to be a gentleman but it also shows the bad side. If you just consider this from the other end, it seems to be an excuse for those guys who fail in attracting women towards themselves. What you need instead is to remember that you are being cocky and funny to make others laugh.
While doing this, if you come to know that you are the only person laughing, and all the others are quiet, it is definitely indicative of something wrong. You will be surprised to know that most women are attracted to men who are conceited, and positive. Men, who belong to the alpha category, do have an exceptional power to attract women. It has been found that these types of men are aware of the tactics of making a woman laugh, and have a good sense of humor, rather than being cocky and funny. However, for men who are only expert in kissing, and sucking up women for them, there is no other way out rather than being lonely.
While talking about attracting women, the cocky and funny materials inside you should be in a proper ratio. Women are attracted till the moment they are able to digest your cockiness. If it goes out of their tolerance, then the situation seems to be nothing better than arrogance to them. We all know that too much of everything is not good, and the same thing happens when your cockiness goes beyond the level. Eventually, women are deterred from talking to you. Women will just fall on you when they get a good mixture of jokes, and haughtiness from your cocky and funny behavior.
It is not necessary to have a great outlook all the time; the main thing is your body language, rather than attitude. While talking, girls do follow your tone, your verbal communication, and your eyes. The movement of your eyes plays an important role while talking to a girl. They are capable of making the difference between a positive man, and a man who is quite nervous. Being cocky and funny from the deep of your heart attracts a woman, instead of acting in front of her. Women are attracted to men who know how to play, and at the same time is cocky and funny.
It attracts a woman once you manage to present both of the activities together because, it helps to decrease your conceit, and increase your appeal. When men are able to strike equilibrium between their arrogance in the exact ratio then they are able to attract a woman. Instead of answering all the questions asked by the girl, try answering a few of them to yourself, and change focusing on fun emotions. If you manage to point out a subject that chills a woman or suits her, then you have the game half won. Being cocky and funny should not mean that you are only trying to end up in sex with her, it is rather about impressing upon the woman.
May 14th, 2008 at 10:39 pm
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May 15th, 2008 at 7:25 pm
Being cocky is one of the most important ways for men to act. I found this out the hard way. Being comfortable with yourself can sometimes be portrayed as being cocky.
May 24th, 2008 at 12:51 am
I think it’s all about the masculine and feminine side… men are attracted by women that look weak, and women are attracted to guys that look strong and masculine.
May 26th, 2008 at 8:32 pm
This is a well written post that I agree with. Unfortunately women seem to perpetuate the myth that they want a nice guy that worships the ground they walk on. But they are looking for someone with confidence and a bit of arrogance.
May 27th, 2008 at 4:20 pm
Good manners + funny seems to beat good looks, flashy car and bundles of cash every time.
Make them laugh and treat them with respect and you are bound to make a great impression
May 27th, 2008 at 9:30 pm
Interesting ideas, but I should tell I prefer the old gentleman type men.
May 29th, 2008 at 2:00 am
This article is so true — I bookmarked the page in my favorites. Yes, we are looking for nice guys, but we are also looking for guys who know how to show us a good time. When I say good time I don’t just mean sweeping us off our feet with dinner and flowers, I also mean being able to understand what makes us smile and feel happy. The willingness to look stupid and carefree confidence is also very attractive.
June 3rd, 2008 at 2:46 am
Cocky –Yuck, Funny–Yes only most people equate funny with ugly. I think there are handsome and funny. The Cocky guys are for the losers.
June 3rd, 2008 at 9:20 am
That’s funny ‘coz I was just reading about David DeAngelo, who brought “cocky and funny” to the forefront of the seduction community, the other day. The problem with “cock and funny” is that it’s hard to find the right balance because every woman has a different sense of humor. So in the end, it’s still a matter of luck to find someone who’ll find your mix of “cocky and funny” both cocky AND funny.
June 5th, 2008 at 9:28 pm
A lot of women initially like cocky guys, and after they date them they wonder why they were such asses. Go figure.
June 11th, 2008 at 12:54 pm
Digest your cockiness? Haha
June 11th, 2008 at 6:46 pm
Yeah, being cocky and funny is the best way to attract women. I think you’ve read David DeAngelo’s ‘Double Your Dating’…
June 17th, 2008 at 5:07 am
Hey………..You are opening the secret of the women. Now no men will get excited to see this habit of women…:P
July 5th, 2008 at 3:52 am
being cocky is great and all, but there is something as too much…I know. I’m super cocky.
July 11th, 2008 at 11:46 am
I love all this stuff that Mystery came up with. There are some really great examples of C&F in ‘The Game’ but the best cocky and funny routine I have found is the shower script.
July 15th, 2008 at 3:12 am
Hmmm… I’ve got the cocky thing down, now if I can only get the funny, and the khakis, then I’ll get the girls
August 5th, 2008 at 8:27 pm
Hello, this is very interesting post. I agree with some of the comments. And I think the cocky is funny
August 15th, 2008 at 12:53 am
Being a girl, I think the more important thing is being funny. Its better to be more funny rather than be too cocky.
August 15th, 2008 at 8:27 pm
Funny wins everytime, being cocky is just plain stupid.
August 18th, 2008 at 7:30 pm
Who would’ve thought that being cocky would be found attractive?
August 20th, 2008 at 10:39 am
Being a man a hope that someday in our world the most girls will be like Getting Hit on
I love funny girls with a nice smaily faces 
August 23rd, 2008 at 6:57 pm
Its really about how you say hello.
To say hello properly you have to “be ready to happen to them” and by the same token “be ready for them to happen to you”
Young children nail it instinctively, but we seem to lose it as we get older.
September 12th, 2008 at 4:42 pm
Articles like this are really misleading. There is no one type that women like. Every woman wants something differnet. Funny yes, cocky no. Confidence yes though…The best advice came form my mother, if you don’t love yourself, no one else will. So love yourself, relax into your personality and you’ll find your best match.
September 13th, 2008 at 1:57 am
I think that you just have to be comfortable within yourself. This isn’t being cocky but it is knowing who you are and if people arn’t down with that then you can say go f yourself. It really works in attracting women because they know that you would give it all up (even them) to be who you are.
September 21st, 2008 at 9:31 pm
I hate to say it… I love a funny, cocky guy. There’s something about that level of confidence that just turns me on!