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I think women always look for a new way to take a better care of their skin. We are often depressed by the glamorous shots in Vogue and other magazines that make us look so far from perfect, but on the other hand, can we afford all these cosmetics the celebrities use? Probably not. So we need a lot of free and handy tips, ideas and information… Yesterday I came across one pretty well know Skin care website and thought I’d link to it. Moreover, you might be interested in visiting www.WorldTalkRadio.com — this website offers free steaming online radio and focuses each week on a different topic. I’d suggest to bookmark these websites or subscribe to their mailing list if you don’t want to miss anything, as the sites are daily updated and the information is, of course, free! SO, why not? We all want to get the best out of every cell on our body, and look glamorous and sparkling like those stars in magazines, but for this, we need to learn a few things about our skin health first!
It seems to be a pretty popular topic across the love-oriented blogs, so I thought I’d cover it also. Let’s face it, most women do fake. According to researches we are talking about 70% of women who either always fake, or fake occasionally, which is a pretty big percentage! There are various reasons why would woman decide to fake it, starting from tension and inability to achieve it in the first place, to just a way of “speeding up the process” if it’s starting to take too long. Another common reason is when the couple has strong feelings to each other, the girl would not want to leave the guy with a bad feeling and do it to avoid “offending” him. Whatever the reason is: most women do it and it’s a fact.
However, not everyone do it right and this results in extra fights, tension and uncomfortable feelings, even breakups, so here are the most common mistakes women do while faking, and how to avoid them.
Mistake nr 1: All the orgasms are always identical.
This is a very common mistake women do. The real orgasms always vary in their intensity and reaction they cause, while most of the parameters and physical reactions are similar, sometimes they are stronger, sometimes they are ‘lighter’. Some make the girl scream, others pass almost unnoticed to the guy. That’s nature. However, when faking, women always think that if it won’t be loud enough OR won’t look similar to the previous time when they faked it already — then the guy would suspect something and hence they always do the routine identically.
Solution: Vary your reactions, and explain that it’s not always strong… This will look natural. naturally evil… 
Mistake nr 2: Faking Vaginal Spasms (or not faking them).
Regerdless the intensity and outward appearance of woman’s orgasm, there are always always always vaginal spasms that are impossible to ignore if you are inside her. They come in sequence, from about 5 to 20+, relatively fast and strong. Woman with more experience knows that they need to fake that too, which is very hard, while women with less experience in this area don’t do it in the first place and then, it’s rather obvious to the guy that this was fake.
Solution: If the girl decides to fake the spasms, she would either apply tension on her entire genitals system (which is also wrong because you would squeeze all the muscles and won’t have the “pauses” between the spasms), or try to “squeeze” the vaginal muscles, Read the rest of this entry »
Regardless age or culture, we are ceaselessly looking for date ideas, right? That’s why I thought Valentine’s Day would be the best timing to blog about it, so maybe you can get a useful dating advice before the day is over. Even if it’s too late, we date all the time, right? And also, when dating someone, we occasionally make mistakes, wrong moves, rush or develop our relationship too slow, which results is loss of passion.
So how do you find the right solution for each and every situation and not only keep your sweetheart near, but also spice up your relationship and make your dates truly romantic? The guys who author PlanJam blog, realize that love is an eternal sequence of dilemmas and confusions, so they offer daily tips and tricks for the dating scene. How to choose the best gift? How to let go for holidays? How to survive after a break up, and many other questions are answered in a professionally written and fun manner on PlanJam blog. Read, enjoy, learn, and spread the love
This is a tricky question because every guy is different. One will not be able to enjoy unless the play gets rougher, while others develop a complex if you slightly bite their buttocks. Moreover, it depends on the mood (yes, guys also have different moods, but they are always “in the mood” for it, only depends HOW they want it). So all you can do is, with a little background knowledge, sometimes adjust to his moods and by this give him the best emotional experience.
The Alpha Male.
For instance, if your partner has just won in a game, signed an important contract at work or did anything else that gave him a feeling of being a “winner”, his testosterone level will go up and he would prefer any kind of “animalistic” sex or a just quickie against a wall. When he is in such a mood, he is unlikely to want to participate in any play where he takes a submissive role.
If the guy is an state of being an “excited winner”, all you need to do is tease him a little bit (with maybe a small strip tease) and make him come and take his prize. He would probably be very active, creative and maybe even nicely-aggressive.
The Sensual Touch.
Women tend to believe that guys only want rough action, while in reality many men do want close and intimate soft sensuality. They want to be touched and caressed not only after or before intimacy, but also during (don’t we all?). While all living creatures always react positively to warmth and love, there are situations when this can be especially appreciated. For example, after a dangerous trip, or after any changes you both or he has undergone or just experimenting something unusual — men would prefer a soft, loving and sensual act that will make him feel your love and closeness. Anything that is face-to-face, gentle and involves maximum physical closeness will be good after any sort of stressful situation.
The post-stress situations make us crave for a warm and healing touch, so if you feel your men is in such state, create an atmosphere where the aim is not reaching the peek and climax, but to get close and enjoy this physical and emotional union.
The knocked-down boy.
The reality is dynamic, and a guy who has just yesterday been successful and was in a mood to be an “alpha male”, may get hit by his work, annoyed by financial situation or just fight with relatives and be brought down. Even if he is not down to the point of completely not being in a mood for sex, he still won’t feel like pushing the limits of sex and creativity in bed.
If your guy is worn out, just take all the activity on yourself and rock his world without demanding innovations or even expecting too much.
In conclusion, sometimes it is not the position or actual sexy trick that makes your intimacy better, but adjusting perfect to your partner’s state of mind and emotional needs.
This position (I decided not to illustrate since this is a family safe blog. Or at least was.) is very famous in all cultures and popular for all ages. Why?
First of all, it allows deep penetration; so guys with average size can explore their full potential in this position, while men with sizes larger than the average can not only enjoy but also see the act from the best angle. Moreover, (and this of course depends on the variation and angle of this position) both the guy and girl get easy access to the (woman’s) clitoris, in case you decide that woman’s pleasure is important as well.
The guy has his hands free, so considering the tempting proximity of the buttocks and the anus, this might get useful and even pleasurable. Also, it simulates the G-spot and is perfect for energetic or hardcore action without wearing out or tiring one of the partners.
Finally and essentially: you are not face to face — so you can just enjoy.
We, women, know that it’s really hard to find a good guy now-a-days. They are all either already taken or there are not enough of them in our social cycle in the first place, or we can’t recognize the good guy and keep falling for the players time after time. Dating online could be a solution for many, however, it’s a lot of trial and error tactics and we know that “trial and error” with strangers online can have tragic consequences.
Sometimes I look for places where I can join and share my experiences with other women or learn from their mistakes or, just read up on others stories and what they have to say about Date Screening or relationship and dating in general. You will be surprised how each it is to get Infidelity Support online, because you can gather information from forums where over 300,000 women have contributed and participated in Relationship Polls that deal with various matters. The WomanSavers dot com website is a community where women of all ages can find answers to the eternal questions from subjects about signs of cheating men, to practical and medical advices. This site is top 15% most popular women’s websites in the world and offers free psychotherapy advices from a psychotherapist specializing in sociopaths and narcissists. Men, that is.
Moreover, for those who believe in the supernatural, WomanSavers also offers free tarot card readings. This site is for girls of all ages who are young at heart and need advice or guidance with anything that concerns men, building a relationship or simple dating.
What is sex for a woman? With an average ego-maniac man we get a few French kisses, a few kisses on the neck, dedicated caresses of the breasts, if lucky — a few licks down there, and from 1 to 100 minutes of intercourse. And, what’s sex for a guy? With a woman of an average experience you will probably get to start from a fellatio, a few shy kisses here and there and then from 1 to 100 minutes of intercourse (and about 1 to 100 minutes of complains, if you really fall on an average woman). I wonder if this is why over the past 15 years we have 7 millions (!!!) of asexuals on our planet? Anyway, before you put a big X on your boring sex life, here are 5 very basic tips for enriching the experience and possibly improving your and your partner’s satisfaction.
The good thing about sex is that it’s a learnable skill. No one is a natural born good lover, so it’s all about what you pick up from personal experience, movies, magazines, books and Dark Light of Love Blog. So let’s see what you can pick up today…
1. Back Massage With a Tongue.
We all know the famous back massage, it can be done with oils or implementing various techniques but why not to try and take it to the highest level of pleasure? Make sure your partner is laying comfortably on the belly and instead of your fingers, use your tongue’s muscle to give her or him a message. Be creative and experiment, remember that it’s not just about kissing the back, it’s about massaging. Move all over, tantalize, suck on the skin, gently bite…whatever, as long as you feel you get a positive response from your partner!
2. Start from the Bottom to the Top.
If your partner took a shower and you have no mental blocks about kissing one’s feet, why not to start from the very bottom and go to the top, while not missing any inch of your partner’s body? Remember the saying “the higher is the love, the lower are the kisses”, and exhibit a bit of originality. It won’t turn your sex life up-side-down, but can be nice twist, if you have never done this before.
3. The Rough Twist
Many people around the globe practice BDSM. This does not mean you have to tie your partner to the ceiling, whip him / her to death and torture their body until they passes out from pain. NO. Read the rest of this entry »
Okay, Saturday night. You just had a romantic dinner, you talked and laughed, you discovered you have a lot in common and life seems beautiful than ever before, you can’t wait to get in a taxi and finally to be alone so you can explore your feelings and exhibit the previously learnt skills. But, remember, apart from the obvious bedroom mistakes, there are still a few things to concentrate on…
- “Ow, you are already there?!”
Now, imagine this scenario… you are a guy, ardently kissing your partner, teasing her… she begs to penetrate her but you tease her some more, until you finally enterrrr… Her moans tempo remains the same and 10 seconds after, in the heat of the passion, she repeats her plea to penetrate her. Uuuhm. Should you explain you are already there or tell her it’s just too big for her and you will have mercy on her tonight..? It sounds funny (or sad?), but it happens. If the guy does not have Apollo13 at his disposal, and if the girl is too aroused (which means she is not very tight anymore) AND moreover if you employed your hands beforehand, you might find yourself in a similar situation. Girls: make sure you don’t ask for something you already got. Guys, announce it out loud if you feel it might get overlooked.
- “Oh my dear John… I mean Matt!”
This also happens now and then. You’ve had a partner for years and got used to repeating a certain name in bed. It became more of a classical conditioning reflex rather than expression of a beloved name. After a few years you break up and you go to bed with someone else. Intimate atmosphere, your are making out, closing your eyes… (here comes our well-trained Pavlov’s dog) — whispering the incorrect name. Oops! It happened to me once and I got a hard slap in the face for it, since then I learnt one lesson: never ever call your partners by their names in bed. Give them a neutral pet name, because if in the heat of the passion you say “oh yes my panther, do it to me” instead of “oh yes my lion, don’t stop”, I promise you — it will cause no harm (just don’t panic yourself if you said something wrong!)
- “You have the biggest ____ ever!”
Well… You did it, it was great, what now? Guys will say — time to visit the fridge and sleep, girls will say time to discuss our destiny and future. It’s not because you are different and don’t match as a couple, but because of you are of opposite gender. However, this does not mean you cannot find harmony. Watch this nice video with a lot of subtle humour and sarcasm for better understanding as to what should you do after intimacy.
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